I Guess We’re Grown-Ups Now

A podcast about being the kind of grown-ups we want to be. The answers are better than the questions.


Cry You Later

February 9th, 2017 · 33 minutes

Brook and Kari discuss crying, particularly at work, and what it means, why we do it, and what to do if you see someone doing it.


Home Poopin’

February 1st, 2017 · 34 minutes

Kari and Brook revisit the topic of travelling: how we pack, what we pack, how we make ourselves feel at home when away, and the weird things human bodies do when you’re on the road.


A Bad Bargain With An Elf

December 30th, 2016 · 32 minutes

Brook and Kari discuss children and not having them, how to get one if you need one, life scripts, undermining parents, pets and how having them is and isn’t like having kids. Brook’s cat makes us laugh and we try to describe it. Great radio.


The Green Pickle

December 7th, 2016 · 32 minutes

We’re back, adullllltttzzzz! Brook and Kari have come out of hibernation to hit your eardrums with a brand new episode, mostly about how to handle the holidays like a grown-up when you’re spending them with unfamiliar people, or worse, familiar people! We talk about Friendsgiving, new and old traditions, Brook loves a good yule.


Jargon and Stats

April 18th, 2016 · 45 minutes

For Grown-Ups' first threesome, Kari and Brook are joined by Kayleigh to talk about polyamorism, paramours and metamours and poly unicorns, cis/straight and queer poly, models and structures of poly relationships, how to (and how not to) go polyamorous, jealousy, compersion, and how poly is like Agile. Turns out, Kari’s the only one who’s seen Thr…


Good Enough for Vin Diesel

April 6th, 2016 · 57 minutes

Kari chats with Victor Yocco about the benefits of stopping drinking, the practice of sobriety, how to support people choosing to not drink, fizzy drinks at bars, and when’s a good time to ask why someone’s not drinking (never).


Forcing It

March 5th, 2016 · 44 minutes

Brook and Kari talk about forcing it with desk legs, friendships, love, taxes, being disciplined, and work. Also: the question of whether telling 20-somethings to just work hard is good advice.


Civic Doodie

January 23rd, 2016 · 43 minutes

Brook and Kari talk about the ups and downs of volunteering, kids volunteering badly, empathy and relationship building, selflessness and selfishness, how broken the system can be, doing “little” things, giving yourself credit, volunteering at work.


We Burn Something and Drink

January 6th, 2016 · 51 minutes

Kari and Brook talk about holiday plans, going out versus staying in, solstice, resolutions versus spontaneity, not smiling at strangers, journalling as reflection, minimalism, reading, and death to “should.” Also: cat noises.


My Friendship Car is in Miles Per Hour

December 20th, 2015 · 60 minutes

Brook and Kari talk about adult friendships and the Internet, cross-pollination, intensity, friending regret, breakups, retweeting, aspirational friends, attraction, homogeneity, and the roommate switch.